Thursday, 17 October 2013

What Every Parent Dreads....


The Sunday of 30th September 2012 was an easy Sunday. Since we woke up late, I ruled out us going to church. I was mostly in the bedroom, perusing one reading material after another in the comfort of the bedroom. Jnr was in the business of shuffling the cartoon channels – for once he monopolized the TV set as Babu was away attending a workshop on Children’s Assembly that weekend. Mercy our househelp also opted not to go to church. Japs was up and about, one minute checking on me in the bedroom, another minute watching TV in the sitting room.

It was sure an easy Sunday morning until the panicky moment set in. At around noon, Mercy burst in to the bedroom asking for Japs’ whereabouts, that she’d looked for him all over the compound including the neighbours’ houses but couldn’t find him. My heart sunk, my bowels twitched and my guts wretched – all those things you feel when in shock and despair?  My worst nightmare had just begun. I didn’t know where to start looking. Our compound is right adjacent to 4 busy roads in the Estate. My first instinct was to ask the bicycle repair men working nearby but no, they hadn’t seen Japs, I thought of going to the 2 churches nearby where the services were on-going or to the neighborhood Public Service Club but my instincts told me to temporarily shelve that, I instead ran towards the park that is between our compound and a Primary School.

I asked the first person I met in the park if she had seen a 4-yr old boy on a navy blue shirt and cream-coloured pairs of shorts and she nodded in affirmative, said that the boy I had described passed him bare-feet 30 minutes ago. 30 Minutes Ago? That scared me, I almost fainted, there is a 2nd gate to the furthest of the park that opens to other roads including the main Highway and I lost all hopes of finding him still in the park. 30 minutes is equivalent of 20kms stretch for an Attention Deficit Hyperactive Disorder boy, I didn’t for one moment imagine that he would still be in our estate, I was already writing a statement in my head on how to report a missing boy at the police station and other media houses. I thought of calling my parents or his father or my aunts, but rescinded that thought, I knew how they would react, didn’t want to stress them on a sunday.

I prayed to God to keep my son safe. I kept walking in a trance towards the 2nd gate. Barely 5 minutes of walking, then I saw a bare-feet-happy-go-lucky-boy in a navy blue shirt running towards me and for the 1st time in my 30 something years I felt a miracle. I hugged my son, carried him home, collapsed and cried myself out.

The thought of Japs someday disappearing continues to be my worst nightmare, I put that in every prayer item that is available. Since he doesn’t talk, I am thinking of devising a way that would make him traceable if ever he leaves home and doesn’t come back one day.

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